The gradual enhancement of divorce cases may be ascertained from a
leading Bengali daily newspaper where on Sunday matrimonial advertisements are published. The reasons for such sudden increase may be explained best by the Lawyers who deal with the cases. It is very often said that lack of adjustment is one of the main reasons. But here a question may arise when a boy and girl come to close contact and a relationship grows for a long time and finally married but the same did not continue. In case of love marriage there is enough scope to know closely each other . It is surprising that many love marriage cases are ended .
Some times the marriage comes to an end through a long process and finally verdict of the court is announced for which both sides face lots of harassments and if the couple are having a child then the complications are likely to be more over the custody of the baby.
I feel during the time when the boy and girl mix they should not hide anything to avoid future complications. Surprisingly many love marriage cases are also discontinued. In case of negotiation marriage there are many reasons for divorce like big difference of education,big difference of culture,huge difference of financial status etc. These are all assumptions . No doubt the problem is a social one.
When the daughter returns permanently to her father's house various problems start. The rich and higher middle class families may face less problems due to their solvency while middle class families can also manage. The real problems lie with the low middle class and poor families. Surprisingly in both the families divorce have started considerably. Honourable judges always try their best for a reconciliation and sometimes they get success. Of course in some cases it is blessing for both the parties but not for allthe cases.
It is my humble request to all couples kindly to not think over divorce in any circumstances and if necessary please kindly to think to avoid divorce if possible and proceed for a settlement.
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