Indian NRI. I shall try to speak about all NRI s of our country.Who are NRIs ? Those Indians who have permanently or for a long time have been settled in foreign countries are called NRIs. These NRIs may be divided as per country where they have settled.More or less large sections have settled in Asian countries, Arabian countries, middle East countries, Europe , America , Australia Canada and Germany.We generally give special weightage for Europe , Germany , America , Canada and Australia.Why do we give them so much importance? No doubt they earn very handsome amount in the currency of that country where they have settled. Of course the monthly income must vary according to nature of jobs and qualifications ,Change of attitude.
In most of the cases the change of attitude are utterly noticed. Firstly they try to forget everything about their origin except their names.They feel proud and severely like to think themselves as a part of that country.Say one Bengali young boy has settled in England ,he will be proud to think himself as English. Initially they keep contact with their families but in most of the cases they disconnect the relationship with their families soon.By this it may be noticed that he has changed himself fully and adopted his new country like food, dress , language and make up.It is frequently noticed that many families try utmost to maintain a minimum relationship with their sons but they loose all interests
. Now they may go for marriage and they will select their brides and may not intimate the same to their families.It may so happen that after few years they inform their families about the marriage and also the birth of their babies.
After the birth of babies they take the help of acting and the same are discharged very effectively. Suddenly they change their behaviour and try to be very close of the family.
Now one fine morning he will request his parents to come to his place for the next six months.He will never disclose the real story that the main functions would be to look after his baby . Initially they may not accept the invitation but subsequently will change their minds in view of the fact of a foreign tour which was a dream.
Now one day they have reached at the son's place with lot of dreams and very unfortunately they could realise that they have come only for serving .
They have served the baby like anything and they have suffered like an imprisonment for six months and returned to the family and the same are like heaven.
After many years they visit their original place with a radical change of their appearances and nature . Their appearances have changed so widely that very close associate can't recognize. Besides they have forgotten almost the mother tongue and food habits have also been changed.The family members and also close associate give him much weight age to the foreigner guest .
They feel pleasure for being discharged from the families and do not participate any programme of the families.Do not attend their parents even at death beds.They even do not attend rituals of their parents.while they visit to their families they carry some gifts.
During their visit to India they get VIP treatment from all sections.Lastly I must honestly admit that I have written this as I had the opportunity to see some NRIs very closely and heard about few and lastly I have read about them and I applied my imagination.
This is however , not the entire picture of all the NRIs.There are many exceptional and dutiful NRIs as well.Ofcourse I have not seen such exceptional personality.